Love at First Sight

Thus, it’s entirely possible that the person who made the most lasting visual impression on you when you were a young child or infant – a parent, a sibling, or even a nanny – unknowingly drew the mental roadmap to your romantic future. Your search for Mr. or Ms. Right might simply be an exercise, albeit a risky one, in post-hypnotic suggestion.



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